interesting comment about the curve balls. id be surprised if most people weren't in and out of the whole "do i want a night...or do i want more?" dilemma. you tell yourself you want one thing, and then you decide you want something else. I go with the flow...fret for a day, and then move on. fret more, get excited,get dissapointed, get happy. am i that different? maybe i just like to keep my life interesting. keeps my mind off of work.