what the hell should i get james for V-day? I was going to make a pecan pie with a confectioners sugar heart on the top/ center...but he used some pecans to make some failed oatmeal cookies (they turned into "oatmeal cookie loaves" baked at 225 for "several hours"). I bake all the time, so I dont really want to bake, yet again, for v-day. Im rather short on cash. 40$ is my limit. the absolute-i shouldnt spend this much either limit. NO chocolate, NO flowers. NO cards. Something more creative than a nice walk or dinner. Something he wouldnt think of doing for me. ideas? im so lost.