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Apr. 17th, 2003

i dont know what to write about on this thing. about 8 billion people i personally know read this. if i write out my true thoughts on a lot of stuff, i end up pissing people off. i dont even know what the purpose is anymore. for instance, today i was going to write about something james said to me last night over a romantic sushi dinner that completely took me by surprise and hurt my feelings. ive been mulling over it all day and rethinking what i am to him in the relationship and such. i dont really want to get into it, but im hurting today, and i cant think of anyone to call, so im going to email some friends on the west coast. i know this journal is supposed to be like a private book of confessions, but it's just not.


Apr. 17th, 2003 06:12 pm (UTC)
Now is not the time to think about doing what I am about to suggest but maybe later. LJ has some pretty good security. You could set up groups of friends at different levels of sensitivity so that when you want to say something for instance that only close friends should see, you could make the entry visible just to close friends. In fact, you may want the opposite so that close friends do not see it. Many people have groups that include all of their friends except those that are relatives so that they can say sensitive things about family members. There is nothing wrong with this. It can be a private book of confessions. Make sure though that no one has your logon information. I see things in a later entry of yours indicate that things may have sorted themselves out... I am happy for you.