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Ok, so why are some guys so great in bed (even if they are self serving)...and others just have no idea even how to sleep with another person..they are all elbows and squeezing the wrong places and rubbing on bones during a massage?

just a though after thinking about James (whos good, BTW)


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Aug. 10th, 2003 02:37 pm (UTC)
It's not just guys. ;) And I don't know why. Natural talent maybe... or just compadibility.
Aug. 10th, 2003 08:41 pm (UTC)
Not So Bad
Some of us "guys" aren't all that bad. We spend an inordinate amount of time making sure our significant others are satisfied before we even think about our own pleasure. And some of us spend more time on foreplay, including magnificent body massages, than you could even imagine. What I do when I'm asleep, I haven't a clue .

J.R. of J.R. & Peg
Aug. 11th, 2003 08:20 am (UTC)
Re: Not So Bad
i surely wasnt saying that guys were bad here. i also wasnt saying that guys did not try to please women. (although note that i mentioned that self-serving men could be good in bed) it's just that some guys, even when they are trying to please a women just dont seem to get it. for instance, contrary to what some porn vids might have you thing, ramming your hand really hard into me, really fast, does not feel all that good. neither does biting my boobs till they bruise. thats what i mean. and, of course, this doesnt just apply to men.
Aug. 11th, 2003 10:43 am (UTC)
Re: Not So Bad
Communication goes a looooong way...

is it a myth that women can climax through only nipple stimulation?
Aug. 13th, 2003 01:07 am (UTC)
Re: Not So Bad
Some women, yes. Other women's nipples are barely sensitive at all, even at the height of arousal. Some women can orgasm from a foot massage, others just feel ticklish. Some women can only reach orgasm in certain positions or under certain circumstances, others are multi-orgasmic and can orgasm spontaneously (as in, for no apparent reason). Every woman is different, and it's that exploration that makes it the most fun. There's no road map that says "This will bring pleasure to all women, all the time" because every woman's nervous system and psyche is different, and our pleasure is mostly a result of psychological factors, therefore sometimes the physical actions during sex really amount to not being very important. After all, sometimes the orgasm just isn't that important... lots of women can get off with a vibrator in less than 30 seconds. But what would be the fun in that? Anyway...
Aug. 11th, 2003 08:12 am (UTC)
lack of training in the art of sleeping together, some girls are the same way.

HI Lisa, :)
Aug. 11th, 2003 08:22 am (UTC)
hi scott.
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