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May. 24th, 2004

  • 1:53 PM

lisagoddess
so D. asked me if I wanted to go somewhere with him in August, on my break from school. no one has ever asked me to go on vacation with them. That's always what other people and their "significant-ish whatever others" do.

he also stated "my girlfriend is really buff!" in reference to my arms yesterday. Whoa, am I girlfriend status already? I suppose it has been 4 weeks.

I like him a lot, but Im totally scared. I dont know why. Am I ready to be someone's girlfriend again? He's got my interest. Im not seeing anyone else. But, girlfriend sounds so serious.

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(Anonymous)
May. 24th, 2004 12:17 pm (UTC)
where did he want to take you? Weekend drive? a whole week? Plane ride? Sounds like a Seinfeld episode!

I made plans in May to go to San Francisco (I'm in Boston) with my girlfriend in November, and by the time November came, we were not on great terms. Not bad terms, but not great. I think we both knew it was over. She had friends there, so I told her to go ahead and enjoy herself with her friends and I did stuff alone during the day, and met up with her at night. We both had fun despite the situation.
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lisagoddess
May. 24th, 2004 04:29 pm (UTC)
it has not been discussed in detail ..the location. id like somewhere cool(er) and inexpensive. i dont want him paying for me. and no going to southern beaches. too hot hot hot

im not really going to think about it until july. more realistic.
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simro
May. 26th, 2004 03:08 pm (UTC)
cooler and inexpensive, hrrrmmmm . . . I was gonna say Antartica but that kinda blows the budget. How about Niagra Falls, that would be a close roadtrip and fun and lots of coolness. I know it's like a honeymoon place but it doesn't have to be, I want to go there and don't even have a girlfriend. You could even go international and drive into Canada.
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esmeltz
May. 24th, 2004 12:17 pm (UTC)
ohh, have fun :)

esmeltz
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(Anonymous)
May. 24th, 2004 02:19 pm (UTC)
August
Sounds like a good talk is in order. If he's got your interest you certainly want to keep things open, so let him know that you're feeling a little uncertain since you just came out of a relationship. Do you really need to make a decision like this so far in advance? Do you think you would be spending all of your time in August with him if you were not going away with him? If so, maybe going away with him is ok. Just follow your instincts and don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with.
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r_lu
May. 26th, 2004 04:26 pm (UTC)
Re: August
LOL, no talks! Just go with the flow.
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jpjohnsn
May. 24th, 2004 08:04 pm (UTC)
Let's see, you get your heart torn out, thrown on the floor and stomped on and you're apprehensive? I'd be worried if you WEREN'T scared.

I think that it's wonderful that you are still willing to make yourself vulnerable but, to put it into swimmers terms, make sure there's water in the pool before you jump in head first. If it's deep enough, go ahead and take the plunge!

Be Well - Be Happy

J-P
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(Anonymous)
May. 25th, 2004 04:25 am (UTC)
well, congrats, sounds like you got him. now he's the one that's dumpable.
y not stall until July to decide about August? like you said it's only been 4 weeks.
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