Lisa, Don't have kids!!!!!!!!! Your freedom is gone. You have NO personal time for the rest of your life. Then, G-d forbid the kid has "special needs"! Let me tell you, that's for the rest of your life. How about Ana Voog? This might sound harsh, but having kids IS harsh! It's expensive, time consuming, you name it. Some parts are very cool though. You learn the sacrifice your parents made for you. You learn compassion, and self sacrifice. Your lfe is run by the school year. I am so glad I'm past that. Once you have a child, there's no going back.

I never liked kids either. They were so annoying to me. My Mother in-law asked me why I was having one? LOL, I said I'm hoping I'll like my own! Then I had a sex therapist I had met in Ft. Myers, Fl. He really loved me, but he had a vasectomy. I told him , EHHHH!) Buzzer sound. Like you're out on a technicality. I'll never forget what he said to me, 'Is it because your Mother and family will never see you as an adult until you have one?' I don't know what I was thinking, but I'd NEVER do it again. I LOVE my son, but he is Bipolar.. he's mostly a doll, and very witty, BUT... we've had many bizarre times with him. No common sense. The stuff we don't go through! This is how I stay under 100lbs. It's called the stress diet. Soon to be a full blown breakdown. Ugh, don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your life is NEVER yours. They also get between you and your spouse. Love gets lost real quick!

When I'm rich I'll pay for your Japanese courses, & whatever else you want. :-D

Oh, not massage. LoL. It would take a lot to get rich off of that. Someone like that famous Masseuse, Dr. Dot, has it made. But ... I screenwrite & do voice-overs for a cartoon show idea of mine. I'm working with Moving Box Studios to have a demo made to submit to TV networks.